Im back after a little break I have been dealing with massive downloads and had to anchor those in. Today I want to talk about the reality of who is your twin flame and the answer to the question is not as simple as you might first think. As most people believe that they only have one true twinflame and usually they have a specific person in mind. Otherwise there is a section of people who belive that there is no such thing as twinflames and that we just meet and choose people based on a completely random series of events and meetings. In fact both of these beliefs can be true and are not mutually exclusive. How? Read on I am about to break it down for you as best I can.
Althought we live within infinate possibilites we can narrow those down to a select few templates that we can commonly find amoung the collective consciousness today.
There is Only One True Twin Flame and I Know Who it is!
No One is My Twinflame
My (Higher )Self is my Twin Flame
Everyone is my Twin Flame
Twin Flame is an Energy.
There Is Only One True Twin Flame and I Know Who They Are!
This idea is self explanatary and the most common, we meet someone and the connection is so amazing and the following seperation so devastating that it somehow takes you through a dark night of the soul and through this you stumble (not really more like Divinely Guided) upon Twin Flames. Yes you are not wrong you could well have met your Divine Partner but to focus adamently on the idea that only that specific person could be your partner despite the millions of humans on this 3D plane. As we are creators of our own reality then by holding this belief you only are in fact blocking any other potential partners who could be holding the twinflame energy. A very close vibrational match to the original twin flame who could well make you very happy but due to your beliefs the Universe in unable to match you up with this person as your beliefs in this case act as a barrier.
No one Is My Twin Flame
If you have come here to my blog or stumbled upon any other information regarding the Twinflame, Divine Union or Sacred Mission then its more likely than not you are meant to meet your Twin Flame this lifetime. The Universe can not give you experiences of which you hold beliefs to the contrary. Uttering such words as ” I dont believe in Twin Flames” Or there is ” No Twin Flame for me” then you are setting these beliefs into stone and this will be reflected in your everyday reality. So when looking you will see no evidence of a Divine Partner for you and will take this to mean you were right all along but the truth is you created the reality with your beliefs and speech which in turn of course reflected the same beliefs back to you.
My Higher Self ( Or Myself) Is My Twin Flame
Yes and yes you are in a way your own Twin Flame and as already established if you adamantly believe it to be so it will be what is reflected back to you in your reality. Effectively you are blocking out the possibility of experiencing anything else except the words which you have sent forth.
Everyone Is Potentially My Twin Flame
Yes everyone can also be your Twin Flame if you believe it to be so. As you speak your beliefs into the world the frequency that will be broadcast will be along the lines of ” I am on a Twin Flame Journey and its so exciting because anyone could be my Twin” or ” its possible that anyone of the billions of people on earth right now could be a pefect match for me”. An open belief like this leaves much room for the Universe to create syncronicities and therefore multiple partners could be sent your way who are a vibrational match.
Twin Flame Is An Energy
Ultimatley the Twin Flame template is an high vibration energy, and is not limited to one person. People can enter the vibaration of the Twin Flame and can also choose by free will to leave the journey at any time. Looking at the Twin Flame journey this way you can see that it is you putting this block in your own way by fixating on one person as your Flame. By slightly adjusting your beliefs you can shift your journey into a much more expansive space.
The point of this post is very clear whatever you hold as your belief will be what you experience and the good news is you can change what you are experiencing RIGHT NOW! So now we have highlighted how you are blocking yourself with your beliefs. Lets outline how you can unblock yourself….
No matter which belief you hold you can unblock yourself with a simple sentence I would suggest as follows:
I believe there is a Twin Flame for me and I am open to the possiblity that it could be anyone.
I believe there is a Twin Flame for me and I am open to the possibility.
You can adjust to suit your individual situataion but the key phrase here is ” I am open to all possibilities” Say it believe it and watch how the universe will bend to your new belief. Let me know if this worked for you or what changes you have experienced.
As always I am here to help you as much as I can, wishing you LoveLight and LightLove.
I swear I couldn’t love you more than I do right now, and yet I know I will tomorrow.
The recent energies have been preparing the ones that are ready to finally surrender. Allowing the journey to divinely unfold. Sounds so easy right?! Surely not when your ego is urging you to rush in at your twin and let them know how upset you are and how they are messing up this perfect union and you are just damn out of patience with them.
If you are still feeling like this take heart in my words this stage will pass and you will eventually reach the place where you will be able to fully surrender. Its a key word flung around in the Twin Flame world, surrender, surrender, but what does surrender mean and how do you know if you are doing it.
Lets look at what being in a place of surrender looks like and feels like:
You can hold space for your twin
You trust the process
You relax the reigns
You stop getting Tarot readings
You stop trying to heal your twin soul
You release expectations
You Can Geniunely Hold Space for Your Twin
It’s a tall order to genuinely hold space for anyone. It’s no easy task. Repeating that you are holding space for you ultimate lover just won’t cut it. It’s has to be a real and genuine energy emitted from your being like most things in life lip service just isn’t enough. So what does holding space look like if it’s so much more than an affirmation. You will need to be at ease with loving your twin unconditionally and for this to be without the expectation for anything in return. No contact no reconciliation no apology and sometimes no closure and no union, can you still emit from the depth of your soul love for your twin? When you can say with absolute conviction that if you were to never see your twin again or if you were to see them everyday with their karmic that you would still be in a peaceful place without judgement, resentment or jealousy and send them absolute unconditional love. That you will wish for them the best and that their happiness is your desire. Then you are sucessfully holding space for your twin. Holding space is the energy of the Divine Feminine the journey has been set up this way where part of the Feminines mission is to hold space for the Masculine
You Trust The Process
A state of surrender will mean allowing the Divine to work through you to orchastrate the situation to unfold naturally and in Divine timing. You know with every bone in your body that your Masculine needs you and loves you. Your telepathic link assures you that he is dealing with massive struggles of which his pride wont let him share. You can feel his pain and it likely arises in your dreams. In Trusting you allow things to unfold organically and hold the space of unconditional love for your Twin as a beacon of light in his darkness that he knows he can always find his way home by following.
You Accept Union May Never Happen
Finally you will reach a place of peace where you are OKAY with the fact that you are not in union and that there is a possiblily that you may never be in union in this lifetime. Dear Divine Feminine please dont hold on so tight….relax the reigns. In actuality you do not have any control over this process and each persons Twin Flame Journey is unique and it does not have the follow the same path as anyone elses. The seperation time is used to trigger your wounds and start the healing. Although you will never not be in Union you will always always be connected on a spiritual level, in the 5D. Work on your intuition if you are not experiencing the telepathic link right now, you should also know that you can ask for this link to be turned off as it can be quite intense especialy if you are still feeling heartbroken or experiencing other negative energies. It will have you feeling very emotionally unbalanced akin to being thrown out of planes repeatedly. To be precise the only way to possibly get physical union is to not really want the union, to be happy as you are in your mind, body and soul. to forgive and release and be almost blase about whole thing. Remain playfull about it ….why so sirius 😀
Just to clarify I do read tarot professionally and personally. I give all thanks to my angels and my Light Team for their input. I am in no way belittling the tarot but in this situation constantly or frequently taking readings is only aggravating the situation. Why? lets break it down, Consulting the tarot occasionally or watching tarot videos on YouTube to see if energies have moved after you have done shadow work is fine you are just taking stock every now and then, every few months. Constantly asking the tarot daily or weekly or after each time you feel sad or get triggered shows the Universe that you
Dont trust the process
Are not standing in your power
Still have not released your control issues
You have not fully understood the mission
You still have shadow work to do.
You have not surrendered
You are not your Twins Guru!
A common misconception about the Divine Masculine is that they are in a sorry state spiritually and they need our “help”. A masculine that is lacking in his spiritual oumph and we are here to propel them forward spiritually (into our arms :D). It really doesnt work like that Divine Feminines, no not at all. by keeping this mindset you are holding yourself back. First who are you to believe that you are the best spiritual teacher and source of guidance for your Twin Flame?! The best teacher and guider for your masculine is God Source/Prime Creator/Universe of whatever your preferred term is, closely followed by his own higher self and his light team of Angels. Your focus is supposed to be on yourself, your progress, your healing. your spiritual growth and calling. You will find that focusing on others is a block and you are only holding yourself back. Please release this idea with love and if you dont know how a simple declaration of intent will be a good start. It is recommended to send love to your Divine Masculine this is not an instruction to ignore him completely but sending love from a heartbroken place or with a need to claw them back into your life will only work against you unfortunately. Yes I know its so complicated and difficult but there are some universal laws we just cant bend and we have to work with them.
You Release Expectation!
So what does release expectation mean? It means you no longer wander what your Twin is doing, includingif he has started or ended a relationship. You dont wonder what he thinks of you or hope that he still is thinking of you. You release the expectation that union with happen at any certain time or way or at all. You stop waiting for your apology if one is indeed needed and no longer need their input for closure. You remember that your Twin has free will and can if indeed they choose to decide not to step up as your masculine in this lifetime. You no longer wait around for the text or call or the bumping in to them if you live in the same geographical area. If you practice the vibration of this and get into this energy you will start to know on a deep level you deserve someone who chooses you, who meets your needs on all levels. As you are putting that vibration out so you will atract it back to you. With the guidance of the Angels it might well be your Masculine that mirrors that back to you and does return back into your life but you have to release the expectation that it has to be them or it willl forever repell your Twin, Leaving the Angels no choice but to orchastrate a Tower moment, no one likes those!
What happens when you release expectations and you SURRENDER????
Then you allow things to flow to the Divines Plan and in Divine Timing.You will find that with little or no efforting things will have a way of working out for the best, The Divine knows the best way to manage all the pieces to achieve the best outcome that is for your highest good and for the highest good of your Twin. The plan is to make as many Twins as possible be in union but there are many factors both 3D and 5D that we can be unaware of when viewing a situation from our persecpective. Surrender and releease the worry of how things will work out and let yours angels take care of it. You will eventually stop thinking about your Twin all the time or even frequently throughout the day. You come to find that at some point all the day has passed and your twin didnt come to mind at all. You no longer feel sad, hurt or feel the need to cling or seek revenge. Then when you are finally happy to move forward with your life with no consideration for when you may or may not see your Twin again…thats when you have surrendered. Remember as you heal your Twin also heals so by focusing on your self individually you are both helping and healing each other.
All my Love and Blessings I am Praying for You, Pray for me too.
It’s is with the greatest love I share this information with you Dear Souls.
I’m going to share my perspective about the third party karmic partner in the Twin Flame Journey. It’s the normal thing to see the Karmic partner as the third wheel to your beautiful Twin Flame love story coming true. A thorn in your side? A interfering busy body who just won’t move out of the way and let you lover come to you running. Right?
Our souls speak a language that is beyond human understanding. A connection so rare the universe won’t let us part.”
Step Out of the 3D Paradigm
Dear Souls now is the time where you will be tested as to how far have you actually moved out of the 3D and into 5D. Its very very easy to click on meditations and join Facebook groups about the Twin Flame Journey. To buy books and read blogs 😀 but those things can all be done while operating from the old 3d template.The Twin Flame Journey is a forceful push into operating from a more 5D template and applying those principles to this particular love story in your life. So what does the old 3D template look like in relation to romantic relationship I hear you saying? Lets take a look.
Romantic connections in the 3D:
Revolve around control – even possibly to the level of Narcissism
Thrive on Jealousy – this is on both sides
Lack Trust- life varies from slightly to extremely restrictive in order to appease the other.
Claim to own their partner- you cant do that your mine!
Fear – fear of being alone or losing the other person, feeling unworthy without them.
Scarcity -fear of being financially worse off without your partner so you stay
Lust- its a relationship where sex is easily accessible, comfortable and sex is the main focus.
Unhappiness- a majority of people are staying in connections where they are not happy at all.
Relationships that have evolved into the 5D will look more like this:
Knowing- that there are unseen forces that are accompanying and guiding you along a Divine path. Suddenly feeling a deep knowing in your deep soul that this is true and having no doubt.
Heart Centred- connections will originate from the soul and will build heart to heart connections rather than building from the ego which is a connection built on lust alone.
Trustworthy- trust is given in as doubts are something you have now transcended
Build to Last- the foundation is a secure foundation and allows a lifelong bond
Connection – is built on spiritual, emotional and physical making this bond much much deeper
Union- 5D relationships are designed to be forever they bypass the ego and the suffering of the 3D.
Equality- there are no power struggles, gender roles. competition etc,
Lets look at this comparison in much more details in another post.
Jealousy is a No No No
Jealous being a energy which is anchored in the 3D should not be rearing its ugly head anywhere near you if you have indeed started to align with 5D templates. If you have still feelings of jealous please address as a matter of urgency as this is going to be a major block to your Union. Jealous has actually no affect on your Twin or his/her current partner it will only hurt you and block your flow of love and blessings. First we have to understand that to release jealousy we must first experience jealousy, we must also acknowledge that feelings of jealousy are a trigger to let us know that there is healing work to be done. This pain is in fact your blessing and this will become a repeating theme but a necessary one for your growth. I do not mean to infer this is an easy task it is very difficult without doubt but it’s absolutely necessary that we drop jealousy from our energy field as it will only serve to keep our vibration from rising and delay our happiness. The solution can usually be found within. Ask yourself what is the trigger and what is the wound? You can track it back to insecurities, fear of abandonment, inner child wounding or lack of self love. It will be a different wound for all of us only you will know what exact wound starts to bleed again when you see or hear something that makes you experience jealousy. Follow your intuition to see what steps you could take to help you clear that energy, I recommend Youtube as your first port of call for the many beautiful souls that put videos out to help the collective at no charge.
There is No Loss Ever: You Can Not Lose Your Real Twin Flame
Many many people are afraid to move on and cower when healers or readers tell them to walk away. They fear that if they did not spend their whole time obsessing over their connection and the separation and what their flame is thinking, feeling or doing then the connection disappears. Nothing could be further from the truth. If this person that you have in mind is in fact your twin flame then you will never ever be parted from them. You are infinitely connected in the 5D on a soul level you are the same. Suffering and loss can only be experienced in this realm as we have duality. Clearing your thoughts and blocking obsessive thinking will in fact ease the way for your Union as your start to allow Union rather than perpetuating the vibration of lack, absence or separation.
Focus on You!
As everything that is happening with your Twin Flame is a mirror, a Divine Mirror. This means that if your Twin Flame is choosing someone else it does mirror back to you on some level that you need to look internally and see if there are any ways in which you are overlooking yourself or not choosing yourself. Is there any areas of your life where you are not choosing yourself possibly ignoring your own happiness or pushing your own needs aside. If so go ahead and start to put your wants and needs first as much as you can. If you are making life choices that please your mother but its not what you want so gently change that. If you do too much for others because you don’t have strong and defined boundaries so go ahead and start to draw some boundaries. This is something you need to do for you and this is what you deserve, the right to live your own life how you believe is best. Secondarily being in this place where you are not expressing desires and certainly not having them met will mean you are nowhere near a vibration high enough to be approaching Union with your Twin Flame. Nurturing and loving yourself will benefit you on so many levels
The whole Twin Flame experience is a trigger to force you to level up so to speak to drop old trauma old baggage so make it so obvious and so unbearably painful sometimes that you take charge and take control and work to change and release all that is weighing you down. Even if you decide at any point you are all “twinned out” please, if this section of the post applies to you go ahead and look at yourself and see if you actually have healthy boundaries or not. One fantastic way to find out what your boundaries are is to list them, sit and write down your boundaries and see if any are missing. You may just find that you can’t list any.
Don’t Play Gooseberry: You Are The Third Wheel
Please take a deep breath and remember that everything I say to you is from a place of love. If your Twin Flame is in a relationship or marriage with someone else whether they were in this relationship when you met them or its a person they chose after meeting you and even though they were aware of your feelings then YOU ARE THE THIRD PARTY! Yes a thousand apologies but you are the third party trying to insert yourself between two people who have chosen to be together. This makes you the troublesome third party. From your perspective its an injustice right? Your Twin Flame, your ultimate lover didn’t choose you and has chosen someone else. They must be mistaken they must not be aware of the divine connection you two have. THIS IS NOT SO! These two people have chosen from their own free will to be together. You are the one on who believes that you are a better partner for your love interest. You must surrender to Divine Timing and the Divine Plan and trust because the Universe doesn’t work to our timing. Now let’s look at why they may have walked away from you and why it shouldn’t bother you in the slightest.
Your Twin Flame has free will – they can choose whoever they want and and decide not to complete their Twin Flame mission, like ever.
Your Twin Flame may not be doing their spiritual work- they could be left behind spiritually and still have a lot of work to do before they are ready to realise this connection.
Your Twin Flame is not aware- not aware or not awakened enough to be listening to their intuition, learning from soul lessons and doing their shadow work.
Your Twin Flame has karma still needing to be worked out – Karmic contacts may still be in play and they have lessons they need to learn with this soul before they are able to move forward.
Why You Should Not Worry About This:
Its says to the universe that you don’t trust it!
It shows you still have soul lessons to complete
It is an indication that you are not fully healed
Its reeks of lack of self love and self worth
It tells the Universe that you do not believe in yourself
It says that you are still vibrating in 3D
Its shows that you doubt yourself and your mission
It places a blockage to your mission and union and you are the one who put it there!
THIS SITUATION REQUIRES YOU TO HAVE FAITH
Trust Everything Is Unfolding For Your Highest Good
Trusting the Universe and your Higher Self is essential here. You must know that everything is unfolding for your highest good and that you created these soul contracts before your incarnation in order to experience things your soul needed to grow. Everyone involved is a soul mate of yours who has agreed to show up in your experience to aid you in releasing heavy energies. Any low vibrational emotions are a sign that you don’t trust that you dont believe and you feel this connection only on a 3D level. Know that these events are a catalyst for your transformation and when you start to see events that way you don’t attach any negative emotions to them and from a neutral state you can flow and allow which is make this transition much much easier.
A fantastic way to think about your Divine Counterpart being with another without becoming jealous is to imagine them as a cake, this is a very special cake and when you receive it it will be the best cake of your life but, and here is the but. This cake needs to be prepared by a baker who has the skills and tools to make and shape this cake into something that will delight you this cake can not be rushed. If this cake is given to you before time it will be raw or it would be dry or collapse in the middle. This cake needs to be allowed to cook in its own (divine) timing, while you await for your life changing cake please move away from the oven and get on with your life.
ALLOW ALLOW ALLOW
Remember above all this whole Twin Flame process is ultimately not about a romantic relationship with your Twin Flame, please trust me when i say that you will eventually get to a state where you will start to feel this as deep knowing in your soul. Getting closer to the Divine will be what your heart desires above anything. The Process is designed to trigger you to drop your heavy burden and become closer to the light and then go out and shine your light to the world as a beacon to light the way for others with or without your Twin Flame ( and yes they can decide that they want to remain comfortable in their 3D and remain there) please don’t dim your light you must let it shine, You have trained to do this over many many incarnations to do this and your being called to act now.
Lets start by acknowledging that the Twin Flame
Journey is without a doubt the most difficult soul journey you will ever ever
It will bore down into your deepest darkest
hiding places and force you to face what you have hidden so well that YOU even
had forgotten it was there!
But I pray you do not despair, you were chosen
for this journey because you were able to travel this path and undertake the
very important and difficult task of anchoring divine love and light on Gaia at
this critical time.
The divine plan has been orchestrated so
that waves of divine counterparts incarnate on earth and come into harmonious
union to shine as beacons of divine love and help transmute the dark energies.
What does Reiki have to do with it?
Reiki has many benefits to offer you emotionally, spiritually and physically. Reiki works on all your subtle bodies not just the physical. Cleansing and purging any traumas from this life or past incarnations.
Healing and transmuting your trauma is a major part of your twin flame journey. Your twin flame is your divine mirror and whatever you are experiencing from your divine counterpart to reflecting back to you were you need healing. Shadow work will be a term you will become very familiar with as you walk this path and it will pull you from the depth of your soul to great heights and back again. Issues and feelings you thought you had successfully buried will suddenly resurface to bite you.
This is the signal from Spirit that this is where you should heal and work on releasing any trapped trauma, wounding and false beliefs that are not serving your highest good. some of these beliefs and traumas may stem from past lives with your twin or event you experienced in a life where you were not involve with your twin. Its so essential to clear these beliefs as the subconscious is what for the most part creates your reality and whatever your subconscious is broadcasting with play on repeat lifetime after lifetime and you will wonder why these things just keep happening to you .
This healing stage will last anywhere from a few months to a few years depending on how fast you can transmute and how much there is to clear. I have heard it said that the Divine Feminine needs to be 85% into her healing journey before the Divine Masculine will be spiritually awakened and start to realise that yes you are his life partner, his divine counterpart and that the connection between you is not lust based its a love he has never experienced before. If in fact you have not met your Twin Flame yet then having reiki can help you draw them towards you. Affirming that you are now ready to receive your Twin Flame into your life.
Reiki healing will be extremely effective in helping you uncover what needs to be healed within, including
past life and ancestral trauma
attachments to morphic fields
inner child trapped traumas and beliefs
oaths and vows made in past lives
the list is by no means exhaustive.
This same inner work is the what you need to clear away before you can start to think about twin flame reunion. the more healing you achieve the more you will be able to connect to your Twin from the heart space. Do not doubt that your Twin can feel that love your sending they certainly can and not only that they need your love they crave it. As you are the same soul split into two vessels, a masculine and feminine energy representing the polarity the duality of this 3 dimensional plane its logical that as you heal yourself you also aid the healing of your twin flame. As you are two individual people their path and soul contracts will differ from yours but even in separation you will be connected in the 5D and on a spiritual level you are always in perfect harmonious union. Dreaming of your Twin Flame and receiving message as well as being connected to each others emotions are common signs of this deep once in a lifetime spiritual connection.
Just as a last note I will mention that in this wave of Twin Flames unlike previous ones not all twins are destined to be in romantic union it may well be that your destined to run a spiritual business or another platonic union with your twin.
“Love one another and help others to rise to the higher levels, simply by pouring out love. Love is infectious and the greatest healing energy.” – Sai Baba